This was one of the first things I ever posted on Lessons From Gus. I think the sentiment still rings true today. Let the important people around you know how you feel about them – don’t wait for Valentine’s Day!
This is from August, 2009 and the title was “A big smile and a sloppy kiss can work magic”
Today was kind of aggravating. Now, I really love the work I do teaching, and usually I come home tired but energized – sort of like after a performance. Somehow today was different. For whatever reason, my lectures seemed to really drag and I felt like Jerry Seinfeld on a bad night at the improv. You know; the sound of one hand clapping in the audience. To top it off, I had a student challenge me in front of the class, and I had to be politically correct and give a snappy comeback while still staying professional and respectful. It annoyed me that I had to deal with that when I try so hard and put in so much effort for my students.
Let’s just say that by the time I rolled into the driveway, I had been mulling things over and I was feeling pretty rotten. I was in one of those moods where I just wanted to get in the door, make a cup of tea, and slump by myself for a bit so I wouldn’t whine and complain to anyone else.
I opened the door to do this, and instead was greeted by 82 pounds of bouncing labradoodle in full body wag. Now let me tell you, when Gus is really happy, he actually smiles. He was so happy to see me that he was grinning from ear to ear (that’s really big!) and he pranced around in front of me before diving in to place a big sloppy dog-kiss all over my face! Sorry for all you germophobes, but I absolutely loved every minute of it!
Before I knew it, my grumpy mood had completely dissolved as I bathed (literally) in this enthusiastic welcome.
A little later when I did have the chance to sit and reflect, I started to think about how I usually greet the members of my family when they come in the door at the end of the day. Sometimes I don’t even look up from what I’m doing – I just call out “hi” from another room. I realized how the reception you get when you come in the door can have such a huge impact, and how it can do wonders to erase the effects of a difficult day.
I’m having this flash to a scene I recall from some 1950′s homemaker’s magazine where women are instructed to meet their husbands at the door “in a fresh dress, with a martini ready for him” -don’t worry, this isn’t what I mean (although the martini sounds like a nice touch!). I guess I’m just thinking of making a bit of an extra effort to show how genuinely happy I am to see the people I love when they come in the door. I’m going to try it and see what happens.
P.S. Here’s another kind of kisses that might come in handy today:
I posted this simple recipe on my Rainbow Plate blog:
Wishing you lots of kisses for this Valentine’s Day!
Janet and Gus